Wednesday, November 11, 2009

having to say something vs. having something to say

Seldom do we catch ourselves having to say something as opposed having something to say. The former is just a silence killer or a lack of conversation material. Many people find themselves in a situation where they are compelled to say something or make conversation. These people have a difficult time with silence or like the sound of their voice a little too much. They are under the impression that the people in their audience are really interested in what they have to say?
Then we have the second group of people who have something to say. If a person has something to say, the information will come out effortlessly and without any hidden agendas. Unlike the first group, the people in the second group are under no pressure to fill the silence. They share their mind without any expectations or attachments to their own ideas.

2 comments:

  1. Emerson said: "I'd walk a hundred miles through a snowstorm for one good conversation."
    I say, I am fortunate to have your acquaintance because I don't have to walk quite that far for a good conversation.

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  2. The pleasure is mine and conversations are God's. Thanks for joining me, my friend.

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